If you’ve ever been curious about how dating works in Germany, you’re about to find out. In this article, I share some surprisingly fascinating (and average!) insights about German relationships.
You’ll discover what makes dating in Germany unique — from who pays on the first date to why most Germans don’t care about Valentine’s Day.
The video follows a fictional “average German” named Michael Müller as he navigates dating life. It gives you a peek into how Germans approach relationships, from meeting someone new to building a connection. What might (not) surprise you is how practical Germans can be about love — they value honesty, being themselves, and yes, splitting the bill is totally normal!
But it’s not all practicality. Germans still enjoy romance, just in their own way. You’ll learn that walking dates are so popular, and when Germans might feel ready to say “I love you.” Whether you’re interested in understanding cultural differences or just curious about how Germans fall in love, these insights offer a fun and eye-opening look into what makes their relationships tick
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In the video below, you’ll get a lighthearted yet insightful look at what dating and relationships are like for the average German. By following Michael Müller on his journey to find love, the video explores how Germans typically meet their partners, what values they prioritize in a relationship, and even how they feel about Valentine’s Day.
If you’ve ever wondered how romance works in Germany, this video breaks it down in a fun and relatable way.
You’ll discover that while Germans might not have a reputation for being overly romantic, they value honesty and being genuine with their partners. You’ll also learn about the little quirks of German dating culture — like how it’s perfectly normal to split the bill on the first date.
The video even busts some myths about Valentine’s Day, revealing that most Germans don’t put much importance on it, but still enjoy regular romantic evenings throughout the year.
This video is perfect for anyone curious about love and relationships in Germany, or for those who simply enjoy learning about cultural differences. It’s entertaining, informative, and offers a peek into the unique aspects of how Germans approach romance.
Whether you’re interested in cross-cultural relationships or just looking for a fun watch, this video has something for you!
Below the video is a summary, but I recommend you watch the video. It’s amusing, short and a lot of fun.
The Average German Relationship: Dating, Falling In Love & Valentine’s Day by DW Euromaxx
Here’s a summary:
- The video follows Michael Müller, representing the “average German,” as he navigates dating in Germany.
- Dating culture in Germany: People meet partners mostly online (24%) or through mutual friends, with fewer meeting at work (10%). Typical date locations include cafes, restaurants, bars, and cinemas.
- Germans value honesty and being themselves in relationships. Reliability and humor are also important traits in a partner.
- Splitting the bill is normal, but 76% of men believe they should pay on the first date, with many women agreeing.
- Germans often enjoy walking dates, and around 80% of them are open to a kiss on the cheek or lips after a successful first date.
- Valentine’s Day is not a big deal for most Germans — over two-thirds don’t consider it important — but they still enjoy regular romantic evenings with their partners.
Want to learn more about German culture? You can watch more fun videos about Michael Müller, the average German and find out what he does before work here, after work here and on Sundays here. You can also find all our guides to German culture here.
